stepqueen
Stepmom's Story Group Coaching Program
With Brittany Lynch
Discover the unwritten rules of Stepmotherhood.
Find PEACE & RESPECT.
Step into the power of your Stepmom Story.
*12-Week Online Group Coaching Experience
CONNECT WITH YOUR TRIBE.
Do You Believe Stepmoms Should Feel Valued?
No matter how long you've been a stepmom, your story and your journey are valuable. Women in every stage of life, from every background, and in every profession are called into this role. Over the past several years, I've met and worked with many stepmoms from around the world who have important stories to tell and lessons to share.
If you're reading this, I believe you're one of them!
Can you relate to any of these?
* At some point in your stepmom journey, you've felt completely alone or misunderstood in your situation.
* You've wondered if your thoughts, feelings, or insecurities were unfounded or just downright crazy.
* The "stepmom stigma" has affected you (and you want to change it, damn it)!
* People think that since you're not your stepkids' "real mom," that it somehow means your feelings and experiences aren't valuable (or that you were overstepping).
* You've found yourself (at least once) questioning whether your stepkids' mother was even fit to be a parent in the first place. Maybe you've even thought she was completely toxic.
* Your stepfamily has a unique set of challenges that adds another level of complexity.
* Every time you see another pregnancy announcement on social media, it feels like someone punched you in the guts.
I get it. I've been there! When I first became a stepmom, I had no idea what I was signing up for. I constantly felt invisible and uncertain. Even now, I still sometimes find myself asking, "what in the actual F?"
But I knew that the man I fell in love with is worth it, so I got to work and let the experts guide me through. In fact, my personal transformation was so remarkable, I felt called to bring this inner-peace to other stepmoms like you.
I've been called the Stepmom Coach For Stepmoms Who Think They Don't Need A Coach. And with that designation, I cherish my responsibility to help you find the triumphs in your journey and the power in your Story. I'm committed to helping you find love and connection in your heroic role as a stepmother.
As I was a Registered Nurse for nearly a decade before I followed my passion of raising other women up, I've seen firsthand the powerful connection that's created by vulnerability. And I believe there is no better way to share that love than through Story.
Since the beginning of humankind, we've been using Story to connect with and relate to each other. All you have to do is search your mind for tales of cavepeople sharing stories around a campfire, and you'll realize very quickly just how important Story has always been in our society. Movies, TV shows, and books are created every day about one single thing: Story.
Nothing builds connection and community faster than Story.
Whether you choose to keep your Story private as a personal celebration of the struggles you've conquered, or you choose to share your Story with the world, there is endless value in sharing your truths with other women who just get it. Your Stepmom Story can reach other stepmoms far and wide who need to hear your invaluable lessons -- and to know that they're not alone.
That's why I've created Your Stepmom Story Group Coaching Program.
I want to help you continue your personal growth along your stepmom journey so that you can proudly embrace every aspect of your Story, feel complete inner peace, and see just how valued you really are.
This intimate group training is completed over 12 weeks. You will lay the foundation for telling your Story (without risking backlash from other members of your stepfamily).
You'll be given all the tools you need to write your own fairytale ending.
Imagine what becomes possible when Stepmoms band together and change the stigma. Imagine what it would look like, if instead of saying "I'd never date a guy with kids again," every Stepmom - including you - felt supported, valued, loved, and connected. Imagine what the world could look like if people truly saw Stepmoms for the heroes that we are?
I'll be limiting the number of members I make this training available to so that I can give personal mentorship and coaching to each Stepmom in the group. It's so important to me that you finish our time together with lifelong stepmom friends, a peaceful heart, and the belief that your Stepmom Story is your secret weapon to helping you accomplish anything you dream of in this world.
I'll teach you my roadmap and share everything I've learned over the past 10 years. Between the time, energy, and money I've invested into my own education, personal development, and mentorship, I've been able to climb out of the trenches of stepmotherhood victoriously. I'll share my knowledge and guide you with my direction so that your Stepmom Story becomes your greatest gift, and your path forward is enjoyable and smooth.
This is the most intimate and immersive experience I've ever offered!
Let me break down your Stepmom Story Masterclass even more for you...
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
Chapter 1: Mind Your Thoughts
Your thoughts create your life. When you gain an understanding of the power behind how you think, you'll learn how to cultivate peace, power, and respect. Instantly.
No matter what's happened in your past, what's happening in your present, or what you think might happen in your future, the first chapter of your Story will be all about learning how you can change the way you feel about something in a split second.
I'll teach you my Mind Your Thoughts Formula that I personally use every single day. This tool has been the primary reason that I no longer suffer from an anxiety disorder, that I no longer feel angry or resentful toward my partner's ex, that I've been able to bond with my stepson, that I've been able to release my death-grip on desperately trying to convince my husband to have another baby, and that I've built an internationally-recognized business doing what I love.
The Mind Your Thoughts Formula is fundamental for you to move through the rest of your Story in a peaceful and powerful way.
Chapter 2: Setting your Intentions
This module is dedicated to you gaining clarity about the life you've always dreamed of.
Many people live their lives kind of like this:
It's like if you get into a taxi, and you say to the driver, "Don't take me to the airport."
The driver asks, "Well, where do you want to go?"
You reply, "I'm not sure. But don't take me to the airport."
Most people spend their entire lives knowing where exactly they do not want to go. In this chapter, you'll discover where you do want to go.
Chapter 3: Once Upon A Time
I'm going to let you in on something that most stepmoms, let alone most people, don't fully understand. Most people believe that if it wasn't for a specific person, experience, or tragedy, that their life would be better. This is why most people blame their parents or caregivers, a bully from school, or their partner's ex-wife for the reason their life turned out the way it did.
In this module, you'll explore the impact your early years may still have on you today. I'll gently guide you to uncover why you feel the way you do about certain things, whether it's about (step)parenting, about your partner's ex, or about money and prosperity. (Hint: It probably has to do with experiences from your past.)
Chapter 4: Your Subconscious Values
Everything feels "off" in life when you're not working from your values. The problem is, most Stepmoms have no idea what their values actually are...
Chapter 5: Self-Esteem & Self-Love
Gone are the days of disliking (or maybe even hating) the person who stares back in the mirror.
Many people say, "What are you talking about? I do love myself!" But turn around and judge other people or gossip (I mean have you ever heard a group of stepmoms talking about their partner's ex wife? Yikes.)
Truth is, if this resonates with you, there is no way that you love yourself.
You'll find out how to change that in this module.
Chapter 6: Habits
Most of your life is lived on Autopilot. Your health, wealth, relationships, dietary preferences, sleep, work -- even the shower you have every day -- are all driven by habits.
If you don't have the right habits to support your Vision, you'll never make that Vision happen. Period.
In this module, you'll pull out your most destructive habit and replace it with habits that support Your Best Stepmom Self.
Chapter 7: Self-Integrity & Personal Responsibility
If you feel stuck in life, stuck in your stepfamily, stuck in your bank account, or stuck in your career, you absolutely need this module.
READING WEEK
Take a breather, play catch-up if needed, and take the time to do an honest check-in with yourself about your progress.
Chapter 8: Reacting vs Responding
What types of things trigger you? Does your partner's attitude trigger you? His kids' attitudes? His ex-wife?
What about that snooty old lady at the grocery store?
In this module, we'll look at the deep-rooted reasons that people get triggered -- and better yet, help you find that sense of inner-peace that every stepmom is in search of.
Chapter 9: Relationships & Reciprocity
The number one reason stepmoms get burnt out is because they're always giving, giving, giving, and never taking the time to fill up their own cups.
But this giving can quickly turn into resentment (and if you're reading this, you're probably pretty familiar with how that feels).
Find out the truth about what it means to "give" in relationships. Avoid burnout and resentment so you can live in the peaceful, happy stepfamily you've always dreamed of.
Chapter 10: Stepparenting
Do you know how to set up your stepfamily's rules & expectations? Do you know how to discipline your stepchildren without having to be reminded that you're not their mother? Should you even be disciplining them in the first place? And why is your partner so oblivious to their child's (quite frankly) crappy attitude?
Have no fear, all your stepparenting questions are answered in this module.
Chapter 11: Relationships
The reason you're a stepmom in the first place is because you fell in love with someone who had kids.
But statistically speaking, at least 2/3 second stepfamily marriages end in divorce. That number is even higher for third marriages...
Don't become a statistic. Guard your relationship fiercely, and learn how to be the best partner your spouse could have ever asked for -- even among the messy chaos of stepfamily life.
Chapter 12: Wrap Up
All good things don't actually need to come to an end. But at some point, this program will.
Our last week together will be spent in celebration of all you've accomplished.
I all but guarantee you will not even recognize yourself when you complete our time together.
WILL YOU STEP INTO THE POWER OF YOUR STEPMOM STORY IN 2020?
Deciding to explore the deepest parts of your soul is a big and beautiful commitment! It's normal to feel scared about taking the leap and making the investment of your precious time and energy.
Some people worry about things like,
"Do I actually have to talk about these things with other people?"
"What if someone finds my Story and uses it against me?"
"What if I do all this work and nothing actually gets any better?"
"My circumstances are so different and unique. This couldn't possibly help me or someone else to find peace, power, or respect. Could it?"
I've lived those same fears. I get it. But let me ask you this...
How long are you willing to put your peace and happiness on hold?
Do those fears really serve you?
When you imagine going through this process, and everything feeling so beautiful and liberating and freeing... how do you feel?
When you imagine feeling peace, calm, abundance, love, and connection... how do you feel?
If you're still reading this, then it means you're at a crossroads. You can choose to carry on living the way you have that's gotten you to this point, OR you can choose to take the leap and allow something magical and beautiful to happen for you.
My last question to you is...
ARE YOU READY TO WRITE YOUR OWN HAPPILY-EVER-AFTER?
Got questions? I have answers!
You don’t need to have any writing experience in order to participate in this Group Coaching experience. What matters most is that you remain open to the process, and that you remain open to the transformation you’ll go through.
There is a huge demand for powerful, uplifting content for Stepmothers – whether that means in book, blog, or even TV and movie format.
I would guarantee that there are many, many women who need to hear what you have to say and find strength from your Story. Most books I’ve read about being a Stepmom are horrendously depressing, and I’ll go as far as to say it’s because the writers haven’t done the inner-work you’ll be doing in this course.
Your Story is yours and it’s your choice what you do with it. With the principles you’ll learn in this course, you’ll either be ready to bring a positive, uplifting Stepmom Story to the world, or you’ll want to keep it private. No one can make that choice but you.
I’ve got you covered. I’ve been writing and blogging about sensitive topics for a handful of years now.
There is a way that you can tell your Story from your perspective without risking backlash from anyone else. I’ll show you how inside the course.
This is a 12-module course. Each module will have some type of “homework” for you to complete. For an additional level of support, there will be one Live call per week in our private Facebook group.
You will have lifetime access to the group and to the modules.
The group coaching calls will take place once per week following the release of a new Chapter. The dates and times are TBD, but will likely take place on Fridays.
If you are unable to make the Live calls, you’ll be given access to the replay. You’ll also be given an opportunity to submit your questions before the call, so that even if you can’t be on the call, your questions will be answered.
With that said, I do expect your full participation in this course. Live calls will be hugely beneficial for you and your fellow group members.
It’s my plan to create an annual retreat for Stepmom Story alumni. You will not want to miss these gorgeous vacations with your new Stepqueen besties.
When you finish this course, you’ll forever be invited to these retreats.
Of course!
You will have lifetime access to the Facebook Group that will contain every module and live coaching call.
Transformation is an ongoing process and I support your lifelong journey to continue reaching for the next level — whatever that level is.